Real talk — something needs to change, or you’re going to lose your F*cking mind
Therapy for overachievers.
Slow Down. Stay Successful. Be Happy.
Hi, I’m Nikolai – a successful & no-bullshit therapist, coach, and TEDx speaker. I specialize in helping overwhelmed, overachieving women in leadership & entrepreneurship who want to thrive in their careers without burning out their lives. If you’re here, there’s a good chance that you literally don’t know how to slow down, even though you’re earning well over 6-figures, are thriving in your career, and have all of the ingredients for a happy, grounded life.
I know you’re busy, so let me save you a ton of time right now. . .
You’re probably a chronically burnt-out overachiever because of 1 of these reasons:
You grew up poor(ish). You came from a historically blue-collar family, grew up in a single-parent household, were a first-generation college student, or were full-on poor.
You have ADHD. And you’ve built the career or business of your dreams. You’re in leadership, earning good money, but you literally don’t know when to stop, and you often feel like an imposter.
You’re in an unsustainable system. Literally, there are too many demands on your plate — at work, at home, or both.
No matter the reason, life unintentionally trained you in how to hustle. The problem is . . . you don’t know how to turn it off. And now your health is suffering. Your personal life is suffering. YOU are suffering.
Let me help you slow down, create space, and stay successful. I am licensed in Rhode Island, Massachusetts, and New Hampshire.
The Art of the Calm Hustle.
The Art of the Calm Hustle.
Does this resonate?
You’re successful. That’s not the problem. The problem is . . . you’re also exhausted. Burnt-out. You feel like a puddle. Your body feels like it’s betraying you.
And if you’re really honest, you secretly worry that one day, you’ll find yourself lying on your deathbed, wondering if it was all worth it.
I’m here to help.
You can be successful and slowed down. Let me teach you how.
My Specialties
Where I do my best work
01 Executives
Have balance. Stop living from a place of chronic stress. Remember how to have fun, without losing your executive edge.
02 Entrepreneurs
Get consistent. Stop living in productivity extremes. Achieve your business goals without compromising your life. Grow with intention, not chaos.
03 Neurodivergent professionals
Turn your unique wiring into a performance advantage. No more swimming upstream— let's optimize your ADHD brain.
The OMpowerment Process
Breakthrough
Starting in our first session, I’ll lovingly “read you to filth.” I’ll point out your blind spots, call you out where it’s needed, and start providing strategy to get you more effective ASAP.
Transformation
Now that you’re building momentum and getting results, we’ll look for sneaky subconscious belief systems that keep you working harder than you need to. We’ll transform these, using a combination of techniques that re-wire your nervous system, so you can start showing up as a better version of yourself.
Mastery
Now that you know your blind spots, have the techniques, and have rewired your brain for more sustainable performance, you’ll move into mastery mode. You’ll continue to apply your techniques, do additional subconscious programming as-needed, but mostly just enjoy the outcomes of our work together. Once you’re in mastery mode, you’ll use your new patterns to consistently design a life that energizes you for the long-term.
I got you.
I’m here to help you get out of your own way & provide breakthrough results.
I help overachieving executives, entrepreneurs, and neurodivergent people thrive in their careers without burning out their lives.
Unlike traditional therapists who keep you talking in circles or coaches who ignore your mental health, I deliver intensive, no-bullsh*t therapeutic coaching that actually moves the needle—because life’s too short to choose between success and sanity.
Something needs to change.
It’s time to slow down, have fun, and stay successful.
I know you’re busy. I also know you’re tired. I know you secretly want to slow down and drink pina coladas on the beach, but that you’d get bored with that in about a week.
I know you want results now, not later. Actually, you probably wanted results yesterday.
That’s why I offer a variety of options to work together – from weekly recurring therapy & coaching sessions, to half-day Calm Hustle intensives aimed at giving you months of results in just a short period of time.
Together, we’ll find the approach that gets you the most results, the most quickly, and we’ll work together to ensure you get results that last a lifetime.
After all, this is your life we’re talking about. You deserve to treat yourself like a designer handbag that will last forever and look great with everything (not like the cheap fad-of-the week, that you’re going to throw out next season.)
Let's do this
Let's do this
Rediscover the joy you’ve been missing.